A woman with shoulder-length wavy brown hair, a nose piercing, and a light-colored sweater, smiling in front of a plain gray wall.

Hi, I’m Kristen

A small black French Bulldog puppy with large ears lying on a colorful striped towel outdoors, with a green background of trees and grass.

Willow, therapy dog

At Willow & Sage Therapy Collective, I’m a co-owner and co-director alongside my business partner, Maria. I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist providing therapy to clients in California, Illinois, and Wisconsin. I work individually with tweens, teens, and adults, and I also offer relationship counseling for couples, polycules, families, and close interpersonal connections of all kinds. I also have been supervising newer clinicians since 2021. Willow, my dog and unofficial therapy assistant, is the inspiration behind the name of our collective—she’s a daily reminder of resilience, groundedness, and companionship.

I believe deeply in therapy and in the healing power of community and connection. As a therapist, I show up as a real person—not a blank slate—and prioritize building an authentic, collaborative relationship with each client. I strive to create a space where people can explore their inner worlds with honesty and curiosity, knowing they’re met with empathy, respect, and humor.

My therapeutic approach is eclectic and tailored to the individual or relationship in front of me. There is no one-size-fits-all model, and I draw from a variety of frameworks to meet the unique needs of my clients. These include relational Gestalt, trauma-informed care, client-centered approaches, strength-based work, CBT, psychodynamic theory, and narrative therapy. I’m trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and the Community Resiliency Model (CRM), which I incorporate when working with trauma. My ongoing personal study of mindfulness and meditation also influences how I conceptualize healing and presence.

Clients often seek therapy with me to address anxiety, depression, grief/loss, existential issues, ADHD, trauma, substance use,  self harm, life transitions, identity issues, and relationship challenges. I also work with couples and people in monogamous, polyamorous, or ethically non-monogamous (ENM) relationships, using frameworks like the Gottman Method to support emotional intimacy, communication, and trust.

My work is grounded in cultural humility, and I strive to create a space that is inclusive and affirming of all identities. I have particular experience working with LGBTQ+ clients and those navigating identity, systemic oppression, and belonging. At its core, my work is about fostering awareness, resilience, and meaningful connection—with ourselves and with others.

"I had this wild idea: What if I wanted to thrive, as myself? What would thriving fully as myself mean?"

— Prisca Dorcas Mojica Rodriguez

  • Counseling

    Willow & Sage Therapy Collective delivers virtual therapy to kids, teens, adults, couples, and families who want to transform their lives and relationships. We’ll start with a free 20-minute consultation where we’ll discuss what brings you in to therapy and how we can help.

  • Supervision

    Our clinical supervision is designed for associates who seek to deepen their personal and professional development in a nurturing environment. Our community is all about people coming together, supporting one another, and building genuine friendships along the way.

  • Consultation

    We offer customized clinical consultations (group and individual) on trauma-informed care for a diverse range of service providers within the mental health sector and beyond. We’re committed to cultivating an environment of awareness and healing that benefits everyone.

  • Trainings

    For professionals: Explore specialized training that delves into trauma and recovery. Whether you want to learn the foundations of effectively treating trauma or expand your seasoned toolkit, these classes offer valuable insights and practical tools for you and your clients.

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Kristen’s Therapy at a Glance

  • Kristen Welke, M.A., LMFT
    Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
    CA LMFT 115753, IL LMFT 166.00183, and WI LMFT 1435-124

  • EDUCATION & TRAINING

    • University of Wisconsin - Madison - Bachelor of Arts in International Studies and Spanish

    • Antioch University - Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology

    • Clinical Training - Southern California Counseling Center

    • Southern California Counseling Center - Clinical Coordinator of Outreach Services and volunteer counselor

    ADDITIONAL TRAINING
    *Please note that I am continually practicing, learning, and gaining certifications so this list is not exhaustive.

    • EMDR Trained

    • Trauma Resiliency Model (Trauma Resource Institute)

    • Community Resiliency Model (Trauma Resource Institute)

    • Currently studying Level 1 of the Gottman Method

    PROFESSIONAL AFFILIATIONS

    • Licensed by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences

    • California Association of Marriage & Family Therapists (CAMFT) since 2018

    • American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT since 2023)

  • THERAPEUTIC SPECIALTIES

    • Teens/tweens

    • Issues faced by the LGBTQIA+ community

    • Open relationships / non-monogamy

    • Substance Use/Addiction

    OTHER TREATMENT SERVICES

    • Anxiety

    • Depression

    • Bipolar Disorder

    • Stress Management

    • Relationship Struggles

    • Self-Esteem

    • Eating Disorders

    • Suicidal Ideation

    • Grief & Loss

    • Family Conflict

    • Spiritual Exploration

    • Life Transitions

    • Trauma & PTSD

    • Anger Management

    • Peer Relationships

    • Mood Disorders

    • Transgender Issues

    • Individual Therapy (50 mins): $200 for each session

    • Family or Couples Therapy (60 mins): $225 per session

    Reduced fee rates are available on a limited bases for those who financially qualify. Please inquire for more information.

  • I offer the following approaches to therapy:

    • EMDR

    • Narrative

    • Gestalt

    • Cognitive-Behavioral

    • Family Systems

    • Relational

    • Play Therapy

    • Feminist

    • Psychodynamic

    • Attachment-Based

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